I broke up with my bf of over a year in Feb and I'm so not over it. I'm still in high school can't even escape him we have like all the same classes. This year's been rough with friends and my mental health is kinda trash. Decided to skip prom cuz he's talking to one of my only friends now and going solo sounds like actual torture. Guess I didn't think a mutual breakup would hit this hard. Any wisdom or advice on how to survive senior year?
Last updated on:2025-05-01T15:37:17+05:30
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Hi, your situation is so much like mine, my ex of 1 year and a half broke up with me on his decisions last month, i was crashing out like hell, I'm also still in highschool which makes things even harder because me and him are in the same club too, he said don't act like we don't have a thing but at the end of the day i had to pretend we didn't even have loved eachother, it hurts, it definitely do, i cried a lot, it's easier said than done, he acts professionally which hurts me more because he thinks of me as a colleague like I'm never his lover, it's not crazy, you're just human, you're trying to process that gap in your life and in your heart and how to live with it, wish i could hug you tight, i only wish you good things, i want you to not deny your feelings and let it flow, let it blew, let yourself feel, because you have a heart.
Hey Hope you get through this pain quicker , Trying new hobbies, meeting new people and getting into new activities can make it easier for you to move on.You can use this opportunity to move on to yourself and a better version of you , a happier version of you totally. Don't be scared to try something new in life, God bless
High school makes breakups feel even more intense but one day this won’t weigh so heavy on your heart.
If senior year feels unbearable focus on the things that make you happy outside of them. Clubs hobbies or even just little moments of joy can help.
Mutual breakups can still hurt like hell especially when life keeps throwing reminders at you.
It’s rough when your ex starts talking to your friend but remember you deserve friendships that support you not ones that make things worse.
Skipping prom because of them is totally understandable but don’t let this moment define your senior year. There’s still time to make good memories.
Breakups are tough but having to see them every day makes it even harder. Give yourself grace this pain won’t last forever.