I messed up. Was kinda selfish and didn't always clock her feels. Even tho she said I treated her the best my bad moves and her own stuff meant she just didn't have the energy for a relationship.
Lowkey terrified of losing her and it'd be my fault. That chance I had to love her? Blew it 'cause I wasn't who she needed then.
I know the dude I wanna be and I'm trying to level up. Just really wish I didn't have to lose her. For real I wanted to give her that pure sweet love she deserved.
Last updated on:2025-05-01T13:53:51+05:30
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Can y'all fix it together like have a real talk
I'd be down but I think giving her space is the move rn even if it stings. Gotta trust she'll wanna link later tho.
@coatwill Maybe I gotta do that too just trust that she might hit me up later. That's kinda the only hope rn I guess
Yo it's good you're catching it early hope you can fix things. My partner dipped on me and by the time I clocked it was too late she was already over it
Aight thanks. Hope I can level up and love right next time. Sorry that happened to you tho that feeling really blows like we missed our shot. Wishing us both all the good stuff.
But you breoke up? What mistakes?
She dumped me. Won't bore you with the deets but yeah I def messed up sometimes said dumb stuff without thinking. Realizing that now and trying to be better about it tho.
@coatwill Lowkey think there's still a shot. If you tell her you see your bad moves. You down to hit her up?
@coatwill Same here tried to be upfront about our problems
Still figuring out how to talk about stuff without making people mad cause like if someone said what I said I wouldn't even be pressed
For some people it's also about when and where you say things tho
@sushilub Yeah I hit her up told her I get what I messed up on that I own my part in hurting her and that I'll leave her alone now
Fr tho all you can do is learn from the Ls. If you lose her she wasn't the vibe anyway. You can't lose your actual soulmate
Okay real talk that feeling when you wanna do right but you already messed up? Big sad been there 😭
Yeah fr that's the only play. Whether she comes back or not just level up yourself put good energy out there and the right people will show up. Maybe she's not it maybe she is. Can't rewind focus on your glow-up and who you're becoming
the biggest glow-up starts with realizing your own stuff the good and the bad it's cool you're taking responsibility for that. Just keep focusing on you and be the dude she would've wanted kind caring all that it'll pay off big time. And who knows maybe things will work out you might end up together yk. I know it's easier said than done feelings are intense but you got this it'll get better I promise fr
so like I'm glad I see my Ls now and get where I messed up. Just wish I didn't have to lose her to see it tho. Wish I didn't have to disappoint her to get what was wrong with me and how to fix it. I want my girl back she's the sweetest. I'm trying to grow but I'm just scared all this love I got for her... I'll never get to show it how I really could you know