Okay so it's kinda new met him at work. Thought he was hot but wasn't really thinking anything romantic since I'm more into women. But he found my Insta and we just clicked. He's so sweet understanding emotionally mature reassuring and supported all my ideas total king. My last relationship was super abusive like in every way. I told him all about it and for the first time I felt safe. But lately he's been out of town for weeks at a time not on his phone much but kept saying he's just moving work for people making bank and gonna invest it in my future biz promising it'll end soon just gotta trust him. So I did which was hard cuz I loved being around him. One night I had a weird feeling and checked his following and saw this girl I hadn't noticed before and something told me to check her page and I saw he liked her pic (it was a bunch of pics in one post) and then I saw his arm like I know his tattoos. My heart dropped and I texted him "how could you?! I thought I could trust you?!" He called right after and told me he's actually a pimp. Always has been but took a break then met me and just wanted to be a provider and make all my dreams happen cuz he fell in love for the first time. He said he never told me cuz I said if he was one I wouldn't be with him. He felt like he couldn't lose me so he kept lying but since I found out it's too late. He says he really loves me and I'm his princess he just wanted to make happy. He gets why I wouldn't wanna be with him cuz he lied and was selfish cuz he just wanted me so bad knowing his lifestyle. Honestly I'm so hurt cuz I really love him he was my biggest supporter surprising me at work with lunch bringing me breakfast. But I can't believe this like pimping women is just wrong imagine if we had a daughter and she was a SW that would hurt him. My mind's saying no way but my heart's just in shock cuz he has a degree and everything I thought he was making honest money.
Last updated on:2025-05-02T00:59:46+05:30
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Well while your concern for future is justified and also the fact that you didn't know about this sooner but even with everything I would really recommend you to look into your attraction towards him.If an attraction towards any person disturbs your peace in any way , Try and explore the emotion and don't go with it.Let it fade , Let it settle down and then if a conversation is required it will happen through this still ness and not overwhelmed emotions
It’s clear you care deeply but his choices have put you in a difficult position.
Your heart is in shock and that’s understandable. You’ve been vulnerable and open and it’s hard to reconcile that with his actions.
It’s painful when someone you love hides such a big part of their life.
You’ve been through so much and this betrayal hits hard. It’s clear you care deeply but don’t let his choices make you doubt your worth you deserve someone who aligns with your values.
It’s devastating to learn something like this after building trust and feeling safe for the first time.
You’re caught between love and shock and that’s a tough place to be.
This is such a heavy situation and your feelings are completely valid. It’s heartbreaking when someone you trust hides something so big especially when you’ve opened up about your past.
that's kinda sus someone needing illegal stuff to get by is gonna get caught and might drag you down bad roads. If he lied at the start he'll def lie again anytime. You're young bounce now and don't look back.