I don't cry every day anymore but still do sometimes. Moments just hit different and the waterworks happen.
Tried to get her back with all the attention and love and it was kinda working till she just shut it down again. Said she doesn't wanna try again. My heart? Smashed. Again.
Still think we were meant to be like with time we'd be totally synced. Think she still has feels but is actively trying to block 'em. Not tryna let go and be vulnerable ya know?
But it makes me wonder tho. Maybe she's not the one or just not ready for something serious. If she's genuinely not willing to put in the effort either that's just her or her past messed her up and she's hardened then it's a no-go for me.
Cuz I think relationships take work. Like even the best ones have ups and downs. You're gonna get hurt gonna talk about it gonna try and make sure it doesn't happen again. That's just facts.
So here's the question for the relationship gurus. A lot of people here say when you find the one it's all smooth sailing. Everything just clicks. You're soulmates or whatever. Every day is sunshine and rainbows.
Like do you never fight tho?
Never have disagreements?
Don't you gotta work through that stuff?
Cuz in my opinion if it's all perfect and chill and you never argue are you even really invested? Seems more like you're just existing next to each other doing your own thing. That ain't a relationship to me.
Last updated on:2025-05-02T13:41:28+05:30
Comments (8)
Every relationship has ups and downs but what matters is having a partner who’s willing to talk listen and work through struggles together.
If someone isn’t willing to be vulnerable and work through things it may not be about you it might be about their own fears and emotional walls.
Feeling like the one should mean a willingness to put in the work. A great relationship isn’t just perfect days it’s two people fighting for something meaningful.
If someone shuts down instead of working through issues it may be a sign they aren’t ready for real commitment. You deserve someone willing to grow with you.
The idea that soulmates never fight is a myth. Healthy relationships have disagreements but it’s how you work through them that matters.
You’re absolutely right real relationships take work. Love isn’t just about smooth sailing it’s about navigating rough waters together.
you don't need all that drama to sort out disagreements or like figure stuff out. Pretty sure everything can be fixed even the no way things. It's mostly just talking it out and finding a way everyone wins.
Lowkey sucks if the other person isn't on that same page tho
Fr fr thank you
Nah not like huge fights just disagreements you know someone gets emotional maybe they hit a nerve it can get a lil loud sometimes one's like freaking out the other's tryna chill things out it happens the main thing is knowing it's temporary it'll pass we'll talk it out and fix it