so she said the romance is dead but she still loves me like fam and my bestie so we're just gonna be besties now. I know it sounds kinda off but I'm autistic so my friendships are usually kinda weird anyway. The breakup is still fresh tho so my heart lowkey hurts. Been talking to other friends so it doesn't sting as much. Got an early therapy sesh Sunday and see her again Wednesday.
Me and my ex/bestie are still gonna hang weekly like before our vibe hasn't really changed much and I'm glad she's still in my life. Just got mad heartache rn our one year was this month. She said she still cares a lot like I said and wants to be there for me and comfort me through this and hopes my next person is even better but I kinda still just want her even if the romance is gone on my end too. Maybe it's my autism making me scared of change idk. Kinda nervous to date again eventually taking a break for now.
Last updated on:2025-05-03T09:58:05+05:30
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Hey you are doing everything right. You are on the path to healing.Take care and be Joyful
Heartache takes time especially when the connection is deep. But trust that as you heal the uncertainty will ease and you’ll find your way forward.
This change is a lot to process but it sounds like there’s still love and care between you both.
You’re doing all the right things leaning on friends processing your emotions and taking care of your mental health. You’ve got this.
It makes sense to be nervous about dating again but you don’t have to rush.
Your bond is clearly strong and maintaining a friendship after a breakup isn’t easy.
Navigating change can be overwhelming but it’s great that you have a support system and therapy lined up. Healing happens in steps and you’re taking them.
Your feelings are valid love and connection don’t just disappear overnight.
It’s okay to still want her even if things have shifted. Transitions are tough but knowing she cares and is still in your life is a silver lining.