I caught feelings for my friend of nine years... My bad tho she straight up told me friend zone only. Then like a month ago things got spicy but she still said no feelings. She went to meet this dude she liked and they hooked up. She told me and it wrecked me. Heartbroken over something that wasn't even real. But she was like my only real friend the closest person to me. I told her how I felt but she didn't feel the same. Now I'm trying to just cut her off completely but it's so hard. Anyone else been here? How'd you get over it? Did you ever link back up? Feeling extra lonely rn cuz I got no one to talk to about this.
Last updated on:2025-05-09T09:40:13+05:30
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Hey thanks for being so honest about your feelings.Off course it can get lonely when you have such an old friendship but try and stay real to yourself and may be cutting her off for at least some time would be healthy for you.Please do share here, whenever you are Lonely that's the purpose of this community to support each other
You’ll move on when your heart is ready not on a timeline.
There’s nothing pathetic about hurting over this. When someone meant the world to you even as a friend letting go is just as hard as any other kind of breakup.
You’re not wrong for wanting to cut ties it’s hard to stay close to someone who doesn’t see you the way you see them. But be patient with yourself through this process.
Feeling lonely after something like this is real. But trust that in time you’ll rebuild—new connections new friendships and maybe even a love that chooses you back.
Losing someone you cared about, even if they weren’t truly yours is a kind of heartbreak that doesn’t get talked about enough
Unrequited feelings hit differently when the person was your closest friend. Walking away is painful but sometimes it’s the only way to protect your heart.