so I don't get how people keep shooting their shot after getting curved like that. My pride and self-respect? Gone. But I see people saying they still ask others out even after being rejected. Nah, I'm just built different can't handle the L at all. It's been months and I'm still hung up on it.
The fact that there's literally nothing I can do is what's messing with me the most. No matter what that fail is gonna stick. I'll always be a fail and can't change it. All cause I decided to ask this girl out even though I'm terrified of rejection the same fear that stopped me in the first place. And the second I listen to my friends and go against my gut BAM rejected. Just like I knew would happen.
I cooked myself. Shouldn't have listened to him. Shouldn't have asked her out bruh. I had way more to lose than gain. So dumb of me to even try told myself a million times not to do it and I did it anyway. Wish I could rewind and un-do it. Maybe I wouldn't be this down rn. My own fault too. Could've just not asked and been chill. But noooo had to listen to someone else. What's wrong with my brain.
I embarrassed myself and deserve all the awkwardness after. If my mom and friends never got rejected then I shouldn't have either. But I went and messed that up. Marked myself as a reject. Ruined my perfect record in like 15 secs. All that hype all those breathing exercises just to flop hard. This girl was different man. Don't know why but something about her. Never making that mistake again ever. Wish human attraction had an off switch. Like a brain vasectomy or something.
Last updated on:2025-05-09T14:11:34+05:30
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don't let getting rejected mess you up to the point where you're like it ruined me. A lot of people just aren't gonna be your vibe that's just how it goes. That's why you gotta go into dating knowing your worth and what you bring to the table. If they don't want it it just wasn't the universe's plan for you
Being rejected doesn't make you who you are. It's how you deal with it that shows what's up. Listen to the love here ❤️🩹
Lowkey the best feeling is finally winning after a bunch of fails
Bruh getting rejected is just life it happens and will happen again You need therapy asap to deal with this major fear of rejection This ain't it No one should freak out like this over rejection You'll get rejected like a million times Get over it learn from it and level up Don't enable this get some help and fix this issue you got
Nah getting help won't magically fix it or anything fam. And like I've already been mega embarrassed therapy is the last thing on my list. I just gotta figure out how to fix this myself even though I know I can't. But that's just not okay with me
@mombisia yeah it'll fix it for sure You'll see it's normal Getting rejected is just a thing No one skips it Thinking you can avoid it is kinda wild You'll learn to just accept it like everyone else does If you think getting therapy for your fear is cringe you def need it like now before you do something dumb There's nothing cringe about getting help What's cringe is being scared to even help yourself fr
@mombisia There is nothing humiliating about therapy.
@fatburner Paying someone just to listen and help? That sounds kinda cringe. And bro she was the one. Like I can't just be chill and move on I gotta try and fix this ya know?
@mombisia fam she wasn't the one. You think that but you're wrong. The real one won't ghost you. Only people you'll forget do that. And get your head outta your butt if you think therapy's lame. You're making yourself look bad with this post just cause you're scared of getting rejected. If your leg's broke you get a doctor right? Car's messed up you see a mechanic. Your brain's kinda messed up bro. Getting help ain't weak. Your take on therapy is dumb. You're acting dumb saying dumb stuff. Wake up and go to therapy. Or else this is how guys turn into incels or worse. Don't be that dude. There's hope but being scared of therapy is just sad and weak. Grow up get the help you need.
@fatburner OP fr listen to this. Wish I'd gone to therapy ages ago. My last relationship might've actually worked out if I did tho.
@GlassyEyes Aight appreciate the concern but like how'd you even get to my brain's broken or that I'm gonna be an incel? Chill I'm good I got my thoughts and feels on lock. Not a psycho just a bit down that's it. But yeah thanks for caring tho fr.