I'm just got out of a five year thing with a girl less than two weeks ago and I'm still totally blindsided. She was my life partner my everything the one I was gonna marry we talked futures and all that she was my for sure in a world of chaos.
And then it just ended in a ten-minute convo. No effort to fix it no talking just done. That's what messes me up most not even a chance to fight. Five years just poof. Hurts way more than words can say.
No cheating or anything just emotional baggage and bad communication. We had this huge three-day fight but I never thought it'd be the end. Thought love would be enough to pull us through.
What's confusing is knowing she's hurting too I can feel it. So why wouldn't she even try? That question's stuck in my head.
I'm even writing a text to her family to apologize on my side this was never the plan. Gotta do it for myself to start healing.
I feel broken in ways I don't even get. My soul feels like it's bleeding out. Don't know how to fix this but I got therapy on Saturday so that's something.
Last updated on:2025-05-12T13:51:32+05:30
Comments (6)
No one prepares you for this kind of heartbreak. Let yourself feel it process it and then slowly rebuild.
It’s frustrating when love isn’t enough to keep things together. But one day you’ll look back and realize you needed more than just love you needed effort too.
When love ends without a fight it’s confusing. But sometimes people leave because they don’t know how to stay not because they don’t care.
Five years ending in ten minutes that’s a kind of heartbreak that doesn’t even feel real. Give yourself grace healing takes time.
I feel that. Four years just poof gone. Left me hanging with zero closure or a chance to even try and fix things.
Hey seems like you are going through a lot of Pain and my heart really goes out to you. A relationship that long becomes a part of us and a break up definitely can blindside anyone.Hope you can find your courage and strength.