so can't say much about where I'm from or who this girl is but like the feels I got for her are unreal. Started last year as just mates she was like a sis no cap. But then slowly I caught feelings she's amazing kinda beautiful smile that makes your day supportive plays video games same vibe and personality as me. She dated my bestie I was chill with it happy for them and all but their thing didn't last. I saw how much she loved him wanted the same treatment and stuff. I tried to tell her how I felt but she always called me big bro or bestie lowkey hurt. Then she dated another mate at first I was like okay but then I hated it cuz after everything I did she dated him. I tried everything but it was never enough. Can't move on she's just so perfect and amazing. But everything changed when she found out I liked her things ain't been the same. No more daily hangs no FaceTimes no calls nothing between us anymore and I regret not telling her the truth so bad. It's been quiet she messages here and there but nothing special. It's slowly breaking me making me feel sick and sad just wanna be with her but I can't. Don't know what to do try to move on but can't stop thinking about her. I love her so much I'd do anything. Cry every night thinking about her. I know most people won't get it just say suck it up and move on but for her I can't. Anyone got any advice?
Last updated on:2025-05-13T06:14:58+05:30
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Hey it's Totally fine in feeling, what you are feeling.Its totally normal . If currently you wanna be the person who can't move on that's ok too.May be in this life has a learning for you.So be with it.Be the most authentic version of you, If it includes currently you feeling everything in entirety so be it.All the best for you healing though
You don’t have to just suck it up. Healing takes time and you’re allowed to feel everything you need to before moving on.
Love is painful when it’s one sided but it won’t always be like this. One day you’ll love someone who loves you just as much back.
If she’s distancing herself she may be setting boundaries. As hard as it is respecting that will help you move forward.
Holding on when she’s already moved on will only hurt more. It’s okay to grieve but remember you deserve someone who chooses you too.
Sometimes the hardest part isn’t losing the person it’s losing what you had before the feelings got in the way.
Unrequited love is brutal but don’t lose yourself in it. If she’s not seeing what you bring to the table someone else will.
It sucks when feelings change everything. You miss the friendship the connection but now it’s all awkward.
That kind of heartbreak hits different. Wanting someone so badly but knowing they don’t see you the same way? Tough.