I left my ex nearly two weeks ago

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I left my ex nearly two weeks ago. can I ask about the no contact, I reached out at the weekend, a moment of weakness. I deleted the message before he saw it and blocked him again is this still contact? thank you 🙏🏼

Last updated on:2025-05-13T16:39:55+05:30

Comments (13)

RubiRU
RubiRU 10 mths ago

If he didn’t see it it’s like it never happened. Keep moving forward you’re doing great.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 10 mths ago

🥰🥰🥰 thank you 😊

HealingVibes
HealingVibes 10 mths ago

We all have weak moments after a breakup. The fact that you caught yourself and blocked again shows growth.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 10 mths ago

thanks 🙏🏼

MSMGK
MSMGK 10 mths ago

Honestly? A moment of weakness isn’t failure. You deleted it blocked again you’re still keeping distance and that matters.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 10 mths ago

thank you 😊

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 10 mths ago

Well off course it may be a point of breaking contact but that's totally fine .if you have been with someone for so long it's impossible to go into a Total No Contact, all of sudden or even in weeks but what counts is you have kept it for quite some time and that's what matters.take it easy on you.the purpose of No contact is you being with you only.thats all

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 10 mths ago

I only did it because I missed his kids and wanted to know if they were okay. it's hard after over three years in their lives but afterwards I thought what is he going to say to make me feel better. I'll just be sucked back in.

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 10 mths ago

@DreamAndJoy9 So happy for you that you could find that space of awareness in you to realise that after all it's gonna suck your in.but be okay with yourself breaking No contact once in a while.Healing is a journey and on the way you will learn a lot about yourself.Take care and be good

Griefgirl
Griefgirl 10 mths ago

Slipping for a second is human, what matters is you pulled back. That’s progress.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 10 mths ago

ah thank you 🙏🏼

roastmind
roastmind 10 mths ago

even if u did break no contact, you caught yourself in a tough moment, and that counts. Deleting the message and re-blocking shows real strength. You’re still on track.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 10 mths ago

Thank you 🙏🏼 needed to hear that ☺️