I'm at 18 days today of no contact, and he called me over the logistics of him refinancing our home. We got a divorce and he is buying me out of the house with the help of his affair partner. We only talked logistics, so do I have to reset my counter? His call did throw off my day, but I didn't initiate it and kept it business only.
Last updated on:2025-05-15T05:26:44+05:30
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Thank you everyone. Your words of encouragement mean everything to me.
You didn’t break no contact life just threw a curveball. Keep going you’re doing great.
Having to deal with that situation is rough but don’t let it shake your progress. No contact is about emotional distance and you maintained that.
18 days in and handling tough convos like a champ. Business only calls don’t reset the counter you’re still making progress.
Logistics don’t count as breaking no contact this wasn’t emotional just necessary. You’re still holding your ground.
Thank you. It's been a wild ride, and I'm in my own place now, so I'm doing better, but it's still hard. I'll be glad when the refinance is over and I can block his number for good.
no you did not break no contact. And I'm sorry for what you are going through. You sound like an immensely strong person. wish u the best for your new life.