I just told my friend I liked him and he was just like nah sorry can't feel that way which is fair but still stung

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I just told my friend I liked him and he was just like nah sorry can't feel that way which is fair but still stung. Didn't ask why or anything. We just talked and ended it with still friends tho and he said goodnight. Didn't cry in front of him but as soon as I was in my car the tears started. Haven't full on ugly cried yet cuz I'm at a friend's and that's kinda awkward. She comforted me and I cried a little but now I'm alone in the guest room and feel trash. That was the first time I ever confessed to anyone so I'm kinda proud of that. Glad he was nice and honest too. But like I've been crushing on him for 2 years and now what do I do with that? My future plans always had him in them. What now? I told him I was chill and things would be the same but can I even do that.

Last updated on:2025-05-14T13:57:43+05:30

Comments (5)

Decentlib
Decentlib 10 mths ago

Bruh same. Writing down all your feels and thoughts lowkey helps. You kinda see why you were into them and what moments mattered. I'm tryna do the no-contact thing and it's a struggle but it gets easier every day tho fr."

scarel224
scarel224 10 mths ago

Bruh honestly spilling your feels is tough and now you're just in your feels heavy. No need to make moves rn tho just gotta sit with it and like figure out if this friendship is even worth it or nah. But for real don't fake being besties if it stings too much. You just gotta decide if you wanna ditch the friendship or maybe just need some space to get over him. Either way it's whatever just take your time to process.

broknflower
broknflower 10 mths ago

fr it kinda depends on both of y'all sometimes it works out after a bit sometimes it just doesn't tho
Unrequited love lowkey never fully leaves in my experience tho
Hope it goes well for you

Niggasg
Niggasg 10 mths ago

Yo you were totally badass and brave for shooting your shot. Like it was a 50/50 thing and you went for it that's bold. You'll find someone who's obsessed with you for real. No risk no reward tho. Maybe not this time but one day for sure. Sometimes people got their own stuff going on that ain't even about you

susain
susain 10 mths ago

thanks for the kind words. Trying to keep my mind off him rn. I think I'll be good with time tho. Got hope for the future.