it has only been 4 days since no contact but it feels like it has been a year. every second of the day I'm thinking about him. for context he was really manipulative and was lovebombing me hard. he was controlling too. he wanted my location on for him to see etc. when I broke it off with him for the last time he texted my friend trying to convince her to lie to me and say he never tried to chat her up. Anyway I saw all the red flags but stayed because I believed what he was saying and I believed he loved me. the relationship had so much potential if it wasn't for the red flags he is. that's what makes this so hard for me to keep no contact. the fact that he did have some green flags and we did have a really strong connection is one I know I won't have with someone else even if it is for the best. I consciously know I'm romanticising the idea of him and not what he truly is... I'm just in bed all day I'm in such freeze mode it's unreal...
Last updated on:2025-05-19T16:58:10+05:30
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You saw the red flags and still loved deeply but love should never make you question your own safety.
It’s hard to let go of the good parts but don’t forget the bad outweighed them for a reason.
Manipulation makes you doubt your own reality but the truth is you deserve a love that doesn’t come with control.
Four days feels like forever but every second of no contact is another step toward freedom. Hold on.
I know that feeling of not wanting to get out of bed. I wanna tell you that you are already on the right path, you already know what's good and what's bad for you and you are doing it.. just that it is hard...very hard. yes this is going to be hard for some time so don't give in..you have to get through this. be kind to yourself, do nice things for yourself and please do connect with friends n family. don't stay isolated. the more isolated you stay the longer it will take.
that's so sweet thank u so much❤️
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