I broke up with my gf like three weeks back. We were dating for eight months and I just didn't see a future with us tbh. Felt like we were kinda too codependent especially her. Like the relationship was our whole life and that felt kinda unhealthy. I want a relationship to add to my life not be my whole life. But ever since I did it I've been feeling trash. I'm scared I just broke up with her cause I was anxious. But also can't tell if I wanna get back with her 'cause I'm anxious too. We both got stuff to work on but I fr can't tell if I made the right call or messed up. Anyone else felt this? Need some advice.
Last updated on:2025-05-19T18:13:53+05:30
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You weren’t wrong for wanting a relationship that feels healthy. It’s okay to question but don’t let fear drive your choices.
Breaking up was tough but if the codependency was draining maybe it was necessary for both of you to grow.
Relationships should add to your life not consume it. If you felt suffocated trust that instinct.
You made the call based on what felt right at the time. Doubt is normal but don’t mistake anxiety for regret.
You're right..there are so many layers to this. I’m torn between comfort and clarity. I don’t want to settle, but letting go after 8 months isn’t easy either.
well you have to ask your self can you live without her no one's perfect if your were to date now you would only meet there representative so with that being said are you willing to give up 8 months invested but you did mention you see no future so there's that you don't want to waste time with someone you see no future or is your not ready to settle down and you realize this it's so man variables but you have to do what makes you happy