like a year ago me and this girl were vibin and gonna date but her parents were big yikes and shut it down. Then months later her parents changed their minds and we actually dated. But it flopped and she unfollowed me. Then she added me back just to be friends tho. Months later again she was kinda tipsy and said she missed me and wanted to hang. I snuck out mad late to see her. We just chilled leaned on each other talked life hugged and we even kissed.
Then like two days later she texts saying she didn't feel a spark anymore so I asked if we were done romantically and she was like yeah and then she unfollowed me again. I DM'd her on Insta to say sorry and she just kept telling me to stop apologising and stop guilt tripping. I get it I was wrong and I regret what I said. What's wrong with me tho? To get played like this twice and then just dumped unfollowed and forgotten by her is messed up. Months ago we were chill friends then suddenly into each other. And now 'm nothing to her. Zero. She's living her best life posting pics with her friends and I'm just stuck hurting bad. Wish things were different. She and all her friends probably hate me and fair enough. They've made me feel like my self-worth is zero and I mean nothing to them. I'm screwed. I'm just tired. I wanna be done with everything. Gone. Maybe I deserve it anyway.
Last updated on:2025-05-21T01:42:15+05:30
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Hey buddy.your hurt is totally justified but trust me you don't deserve it.Yoi deserve joy and Love and peace with yourself and you can get it back again.Dont loose hope on yourself.Let her be and do wherever she is.Its about you and not her anymore
She may be living her life but that doesn’t mean you’re nothing. Your pain is valid but so is your ability to move forward.
Losing someone you had feelings for is painful but this doesn’t define your value. You deserve stability not confusion.
You weren’t played you cared. And sometimes people don’t handle emotions with the same depth that you do.
It hurts when someone keeps pulling you in and pushing you away but your worth isn’t tied to how they treat you.
Man I feel you I got cheated on. I was so in love and thought she was too but I guess I was wrong. Unbelievable how people switch up. She cheated and just living her best life unbothered while I'm stuck suffering. Gotta remind myself everyday to move on and focus on me. I'm super introverted and she's extroverted so she already talking to new dudes.
Bro so sorry you got cheated on. Legit wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy so I feel your pain. My ex kinda emotionally cheated too, or at least that's what everyone else said. She got with a new dude almost immediately after we broke up and she was def talking to him before we even ended things.
Nah she's not happy trust me. It's all just for show. She'll hit you up again for sure just wants to feel wanted like always. Then when she's over it she'll ditch you. You gotta see past the narcissist vibes and just enjoy your life. So many better girls out there. Once you start dating she'll get jealous quick cause she expects you to be miserable without her.