I'm wrecked. We were talking for like six months. He started it flirted too. I made it clear no situationships casual FWB stuff and he agreed. He took me home to meet his fam I met his fam he held my hand forehead kisses told me he likes me so much brought flowers every time.
It wasn't perfect though. Looking back so many red flags. Anytime I tried talking about us he just brushed me off or gave the same answer every time like he wasn't ready for a relationship until uni.
Been feeling so off lately. Nervous stomach whenever we talked. Hurt coz everyone even our families thought we were a couple. So what would even change if we were official? Just not entertaining other people right. So I called him yesterday told him all that. He kept saying he liked me so much never wanted to hurt me. Then he said maybe he needs someone different someone to make him want a relationship. My heart shattered. He knew that before our talk why didn't he say anything earlier?
Worst part is I was honest the whole time. He acted like he was cool with it too.
Blocked him on everything except Insta can't stop checking his profile. Saw he already followed two new girls like hours after 'our breakup'. My whole fam and all my friends are saying he wasn't good never liked him anyway. But I still miss him feel so broken. I know I'll be okay but I'll never get why he tried so hard just to not even fight for it. I keep wondering if he's hurting thinking about me like I am but I know the answer to that.
Last updated on:2025-05-24T00:15:27+05:30
Comments (10)
it is normal to miss him especially being attached to him for 6 months. from what I have read u gave a genuine real you to someone you overvalued.it's normal when u love someone... from what I have read it seems he lead u on from the start he never wanted a relationship and even convinced you he wanted one. for what? his own selfishness. there was no regards to your emotion in anyway and you deserve someone who gives you respect and doesn't make you doubt yourself. I hope the best and that I find someone amazing after you heal xx
He was playing a role giving just enough to keep you there but real love doesn’t make you question your worth.
The fact that he moved on instantly shows he was never emotionally invested the way you were.
His words said one thing but his actions said another. You deserve someone who won’t leave you guessing.
When someone shows effort but avoids commitment it’s not loveit’s convenience.
The worst part isn’t missing him it’s knowing he never really fought for something real.
You were honest clear and intentional he was the one who couldn’t match that energy.
He didn't have to make it official like stop seeing other people or (just guessing) go without sex or physical touch. Y'all never even talked about a timeline or genuinely agreed on the future. Any dude can say he's gonna commit. Can't trust his words unless he actually shows it.
up I agree. I messed up. Looking back he never actually said he wanted a relationship and that's on me. I guess I was just so obsessed I lost all common sense
Hope you heal up and find someone who's actually worth it