I'm in the middle of my final exams rn and I have been doing badly in them (for the most part) and I'm just disappointed in myself more than anything. I was so determined with study in September and I was literally known as the one who studied way too much she will do amazing. then this guy comes along and things are great at the start but turn toxic veryyy fast. ofc I stay tho because he drew me in. it threw me way off course with my education and now the lack of work I have done since him coming into my life is catching up with me. I'm just disappointed because I had so much potential academically and I was going to achieve all my goals but it didn't happen because I had this guy. and for what to come out of it? a toxic controlling relationship that has caused me some trauma.whats done is done I guess...
Last updated on:2025-05-26T13:22:08+05:30
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One toxic person can shake up your whole life but you still have power over what happens next. Take it back your dreams deserve that.
It’s painful to realize someone took you off track but the fact that you see it now means you’re ready to get back to who you were before.
I let my heartbreak convince me I’d never recover academically. But once I put my focus back where it belonged things started falling into place. You’ll do the same.
I know the weight of disappointment the feeling of wasted potential. But you haven't lost it you've just been distracted. Now that the distraction is gone the real you gets to shine.
The best thing I ever did after heartbreak was focus entirely on myself. Your goals still exist waiting for you to chase them again.
Heartbreak messes with everything your mind your energy your motivation. But one day you’ll look back and see this was just a detour not a dead end.
I lost myself in someone too and when they left I thought I had nothing. But in reality I still had my dreams my ambition. You have yours too now it’s time to reclaim them.
I’ve been there—watching my goals slip through my fingers because I let someone else take priority. But trust me this setback doesn’t define you. You still have the drive and you will bounce back.
hey though it's easier said than done but yes let's bygones be bygones.You seem to be a person with huge potential.Dont give up on yourself.Make the most of the time you have any trust Life that it will reward your efforts
nothing is lost still.... nothing... pick up the pieces...start putting in work today ... study study study ... nothing is lost still. sending u best
Honestly, same in college. I was so locked in studying all the time, then this guy came into my life and everything shifted. It started off great, then turned toxic fast, but I stayed way longer than I should’ve. My grades slipped but i picked myself up just in time. do the same. all the best.