My mans cheated on me digitally like 7 months ago. Not the first time either he did it 4 times. Used to ghost me for a week cause he was on a dating app then just popped back up. I went back cause I was in a dark place and also attachment issues. He totally took advantage of that. I miss him of course I won't even tell you what he did but I shouldn't miss him. Wanna get over this sadness but idk how. Tried putting myself first my studies but at the end of the day I'm always crying over him. I miss the old him how we used to be. The stuff I'm hearing about him now I don't even recognize this person. Just miss how we were.
Last updated on:2025-05-27T17:48:41+05:30
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If he truly loved you he would have fought for you instead of betraying you over and over. You deserve a love that doesn’t make you feel like you have to compete for loyalty.
When I found out what my ex was doing I didn’t even recognize him. But maybe that’s the truth you never really knew him just the version he showed you when it was convenient.
You tried putting yourself first and that’s already a step toward healing. Your mind might wander back to him now but every day you choose yourself the hold he has on you gets weaker.
You are not broken for missing him. Your heart is grieving processing holding onto something it thought was safe. But each time he cheated he made his choice and now it’s time for you to make yours.
I know what it’s like to hold onto the past version of them to hope they’ll go back to the person you fell for. But if he was capable of truly loving you would he have hurt you four times?
Hey, I've been through something similar. I'm sorry you're going through this. do you think it was really him though, my ex was great for a good while and then the mask dropped and I saw what he was really like and he continued to be like that until I left him. people give us the best versions at the start. we need someone consistent who shows respect and who you can trust. without that what's the point. I hope you're ok xxx