it has only been 12 days so ofc I'm still attatched badly... I go from fck u moments to I miss u moments. rn it's an I miss I moment. basically I'm talking to other guys now but to be honest I think it's just to distract myself but also to show myself I do have other options. but sometimes one or 2 guys say something or act in a way that makes me just miss him and want to go back to him because yes he was toxic but I think he did love me and he really did respect my boundaries physically. it just makes me think that there are no other guys who will respect my boundaries like he did.. someone tell me I'm wrong but it's sooooo annoying when every guy I talk to only cares abt s*x.
Last updated on:2025-05-26T16:53:27+05:30
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The guys you’re talking to now might not be the ones who make you feel safe but that doesn’t mean better people don’t exist. Keep your standards high.
I kept telling myself my ex was different because he respected my boundaries. But someone who was good wouldn’t have put me in a situation where I needed to heal at all.
Talking to new people can feel frustrating but healing isn’t found in proving you have options it’s found in knowing your worth alone.
I spent months convincing myself my ex loved me despite the damage he caused. But love that costs your peace isn’t worth holding onto.
There are guys who respect boundaries but when you’ve only known pain it’s hard to believe in better. Don’t settle just because it feels familiar.
I distracted myself with new people too convinced it would prove I had options. But real healing came when I stopped looking outward and started focusing on me.
I felt the same thinking I’d never find someone who respected me the way my ex did. But respect isn’t rare and you deserve it without the toxicity.
Someone better for you will come along when you least expect it. well that's what I'm hoping for and I believe it. maybe take some time for you now.
hey first of all. congratulations on 12 days.you are doing great and keep it up.It is a little rough in the beginning but i promise it does get better soon just hang in there
hey Day 12! congratulations. its not that bad you doing very well. Its ok dont worry about the dating scene being the pits. it is btw very bad. but you will finally gravitate towards and find someone who understands you. keep going. focus on yourself and have fun while u r at it.
back to dating sucks.Tired of guys acting like they are s interested in you then dipping the moment you don’t talk s*x. If you're just after physical, be honest and stop wasting time