hello everyone, so I just want to share to you that I met this guy who went to new Zealand same Filipino as me . then he love bombed me with lots of things . sending me food at work , having me serenaded 2 times , sending me gifts . then we agreed that I will follow him here in new Zealand . then when I am on my 8 months of pregnancy I have learned that he is messaging his ex wife whom he divorced 2020 . he promised her that they will be together with his 2 daughters 19 and 20 here in New Zealand . this girl who is a housemaid from Singapore grabbed the opportunity to talk to my partner even they are divorced to come here . then after giving birth he saw me almost died . 2.5 liters of blood was lost . then after a month I had gallbladder surgery because I can't eat well due to all stresses he did to me , my baby almost died also in front of me . 3 months old ,.we decided to go back to Philippines to find out that he requested his former wife to resign as housemaid and leave with his 2 daughters in philippines.he had his house renovated and I contributed financially with his house as he said the former wife never go there . to my mistake the ex wife leave there for a year . there is lots of lies from my partner . February, my partner moved out to other house then this month he lied to me that he is going somewhere to find out that he will pick up his daughters. and now they are here in New Zealand . am I bad to wish of their karma for hurting me . he just impregnate me and parading to my face that he is very happy and living me with all the expenses and alone caring for my daughter. I'm on the process of healing and forgetting him . before I am always running after him to find out about trauma bond . I blocked him on Facebook, Gmail even messages . I will never let anyone hurt me nor my baby . he is a useless user .to my mind he doesn't even support me financially nor he has the looks to have the guts to hurt me .. I hate him but I hope the Lord will do the revenge for me
Last updated on:2025-05-27T14:52:48+05:30
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You carried his burdens while he ran free that’s a weight you don’t need anymore. Focus on you your healing your child because that’s the future that actually matters.
I wanted revenge once, until I realized that the best revenge was my peace my success my ability to wake up every morning knowing I am free from toxicity. That’s what’s waiting for you.
Blocking him wasn’t just cutting him off it was reclaiming your peace. I did the same and every day that passed I felt lighter. No more chasing someone who never deserved you.
He left you to struggle while he parades around like nothing happened but trust me life always makes people face their own consequences. Your focus should be on your own happiness not his downfall.
I once believed someone’s happiness after hurting me meant I lost but I was wrong. You are not losing. You are protecting your heart your child and your future. That is power.
I know the anger the betrayal the exhaustion. You gave everything and in return you got pain. But your greatest revenge is your peace your healing will be louder than his happiness.
You are not bad for wanting karma to do its work but you are stronger for choosing healing over revenge. The universe always finds a way to balance things trust that.
thank you