Bro almost eight months since the breakup. She's moved on with someone else but I'm still stuck cant move forward. Got this huge anger inside me. Like how could she do this to me? Did she even mean it when she promised forever? Did she even truly love me? She blamed me for everything never even said sorry once. Everyone says it's for the best but why am I the one suffering? Why am I drowning in pain? Why am I left feeling hopeless? I just crave someone who'd check in daily ask how I'm really doing genuinely care. Need someone to clutch my brain and ease my ailing for real.
Last updated on:2025-06-20T12:06:21+05:30
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the journey and process and healing and growth your doing and gonna do ...all these question will be revealed. your right in feeling that way. I beleiev things happen FOR US NOT TO US!. I'm really starting to take that mindset on. sometimes people literally n this just me living and honestly my relationship woth God. I'm not here to convert no one or throw my spiritual beliefs here. but for me. He places people in my life for A PURPOSE. A SEASON,A LIFETIME OR LITERALLY A MOMENT. THE LESSONS IN WHICH WE MUST LEARN ON OUR INDIVIDUALS WALKS THEY COME FROM RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE,FRIENDS,LOVER,CO WORKERS,BOSSESS,PPL AT MC DONALD,THE LADY BAGGONG MY GROCERIES. THE LADY WHO JUST T BONED THE HECK OUTTA MY CAR. LOL. LBVS. SHE POSSIBLY COULDVE REALLY MEANT FORWVER WHEN SHE SAID IT. AND SOMETIMES LIFE HAS A WAY OF CHANGING US. WE START GROWING TOGETHER OR WE GROW APART. IVE BEEN SO HURT BY MANY RELATIONSHIPS. BUT MY MOST RECENTONE OF 8.5 YEARS ABOUT SINCE AUGUST 2016 HONESTLY TILL I JUST JUST SAID I CANT KEEP DOING THIS NO MORE APRIL 15 2025. LIKE WEN I SAY ITS BEEN HARD. I WONDER THINGS IF SAID THINGS WERE TRUE. LIKE I DID MY PART N THEY DID THERES. BUT TRULY I WAS LOOKING FOR AN APOLOGY AS WELL. BUT TRUTH BE THEY DONT OWE US NOTHING. THEY OWE US TO GROW UP, TO LOVE THEM MORE, TO MAYBE TREAT THE NEXT PERSON AND GIVE THE NEXT PERSON A BETTER PART OF THEM.ITS NOT EASY N IT HAS NOT BEEN A EASY JOURNEY I BEEN TRYNA LEAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP FOR SOME YEARS NOW. N I JUST COULDNT . I DIDNT SEE LIFE BEYOND OR WITHOUT THEM. TODAY THAT AINT MY STORY. N USUALLY WEN WE BLAME THE OTHER PERSON WE GOT SOMERHING GOING ON WITHIN OURSELVES. BABY SHE PROB JUST DIDNT HAVE THE CAPACITY TO LOVE YOU. SHE PROB DIDNT HAVE THE QUALIFICATION TO EVEN GO WHERE YOU GOING IN THIS LIFE. U KNOW SOME PEOPLE CANT GO WITH US ON THIS JOURNEY THEY DONT GOT IT IN THEM L. I HOPE YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH IT! I HOPE YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE LOVE,RESPECT PATIENCE GENTLENESS ALL OF THAT! THE PAIN IS THE TEACHER HERE. IT HURT LIKE HELL SOME DAYS BUT WHEN I SAY THE PAIN THAT YOU AND SO MANY OF US ARE ENDURONG IS EXACTLY WHAT WE NEED BECAUSE ITS BUILDING US UP,ITS CAUSING US TO STAND STRONG. SO WHEN AND IF IT HALPEN AGAIN WE AINT GONE FALL TO SHRED WE GONE KNOW HOW TO EMBRACE,HEAL,PROCESS N KEEP IT MOVING. PRAYING FOR YOUR STRENGTH, YOUR COMFORT, YOUR PEACE OF MIND HONEY. YOUR HEART. IM WITH YOU NO DOUBT! WE GONE GET THRU THIS THANG. HEY SORRY IF IT WAS A LIL RAW. BUT MAN THE PROCESS TOOK ME DOWN AND THRU THERE AND I CAM ONLY GIVE IT HOW I KNOW.TODAY I AINT DROWING FROM THAT IM SWIMING BABY N BY MYSELF N IT FEELS BETTER THAN EVER PERIOD!!!STAY UP
Anger kept me stuck for months replaying everything they did. But eventually, I realized that every minute spent being angry at them was a minute wasted in my own life. Let go not for them but for you.
The worst part of healing is accepting that you’ll never get the answers you want. But the best part? Realizing you don’t need them to move forward. Hold onto that.
You’re not suffering because you lost her you’re suffering because your heart is trying to make sense of something unfair. But one day you’ll realize the hurt was never about her it was about finding yourself again.
I used to obsess over whether he ever truly loved me. But love isn’t just words it’s consistency effort accountability. If she never said sorry then maybe she never valued you the way you deserved.
She moved on fast and it feels like she erased everything you shared. But people who replace quickly aren’t healing they’re distracting themselves. Meanwhile you’re facing the pain and that means real growth is happening.
the disbelief betrayal unanswered questions. But the harsh truth? Closure won’t come from her it comes from deciding you deserve peace more than resentment.