so my first post sent by accident I love life so much

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so my first post sent by accident I love life so much. so as I wanted to say after breaking up with my 5 months long distance girlfriend it feels like there a void like smiling is now almost an homework. and I hare them I never experienced such anger unhappiness and weird emotions so strongly before. even with my first break up and second. how can I possibly be able to smile again? how can I learn how to smile with my eyes again? is there a way to feel that void?

Last updated on:2025-05-29T18:05:08+05:30

Comments (11)

Nigge8475
Nigge8475 9 mths ago

You will smile again not just with your lips but with your heart. Not today maybe not tomorrow but someday soon you’ll feel lightness again and it will be real.

goastme
goastme 9 mths ago

I hated them too hated how they left me hollow. But hate kept me stuck. The moment I let go even a little I made space for happiness to creep back in.

Jalpie
Jalpie 9 mths ago

You don’t have to rush joy don’t have to force happiness. Let yourself feel everything even the anger. And one day that heaviness will lift.

icee23
icee23 9 mths ago

The fact that you're asking how to feel whole again means healing has already begun. You're searching for light and that search itself will lead you to peace.

steevtie
steevtie 9 mths ago

Heartbreak changes you but it doesn’t destroy you. The version of you that smiled easily? They’re still there waiting to return when you’re ready.

HealingVibes
HealingVibes 9 mths ago

The fact that you're asking how to feel whole again means healing has already begun. You're searching for light and that search itself will lead you to peace.

Simmubida
Simmubida 9 mths ago

the unbearable ache of losing someone who once felt like everything. But time small joys and self love slowly fill the gaps. Hold on you will feel whole again.

dontknowme
dontknowme 9 mths ago

hey i know the emptiness the exhaustion of forcing smiles that don’t feel real. But one day they won’t feel forced anymore. One day you’ll smile and it’ll reach your eyes again—without effort.

Motionthing
Motionthing 9 mths ago

ok so this is a hack you can use, look at the very old pictures and videos of time before your ex, where you were happy, with friends, with family, or of family members doing weird things...or of your pet if you have one ... old pictures , cute pictures and videos your smile memory will return hopefully😊😊😊

Hoshiiii
Hoshiiii 9 mths ago

sadly I dont like looking at old pictures of myself. the reason is simply because I was obese just 2 years ago bc of an untreated medical thing and I the only times I was happy was before school. that ruined my trust and hapiness

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 9 mths ago

Hey there is always a way to smile again and feel and be happy and fill up that void.It feels upsetting now but it does get better
Have faith in yourself