I made another mistake . I am on my 4 day of no contact then he went to my workplace 12 nn as I wast about to go home. . his car is waiting and I asked him why he is there .We made love and he embraced and hugged me many times .he said he will come back early in the morning and he never did . he was the once taking of my baby and he said that she might cry . I am so hurt .. I need to restart my non contact. I messaged him that I'm over him and I will not wait forever .. I cried a lot this morning as I felt like I was used again .. but fight
Last updated on:2025-06-02T15:14:03+05:30
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He knows how to say the right things how to pull you back in but his actions speak louder than his words. Remember what hurts more the heartbreak of losing him or the heartbreak of staying?
Restarting no contact doesn’t mean failure it means you’re learning. Every time you resist the urge to go back you’re proving you are stronger than this situation.
No contact isn’t just about him it’s about teaching yourself that you deserve better than inconsistency than empty promises than temporary affection. Keep going even when it hurts.
I’ve been in that cycle thinking maybe this time they mean it maybe this time they’ll stay. But real love doesn’t leave you feeling abandoned it stays it shows up and it respects your heart.
It’s brutal to feel used to feel discarded after a moment of vulnerability. But what he did doesn’t define you. What you do next does. You are strong enough to walk away for good this time.
Fight for yourself. Fight for your peace. Fight for the love that will one day feel easy safe and real. You don’t have to win overnight you just have to keep moving forward.
I know how much it hurts when someone pulls you back in with warmth and promises only to leave you in pieces again. But every time you restart no contact you’re choosing yourself and that’s powerful.
this sounds brutal I am sorry hugssss