my ex gf broke up with me a month ago and im still so hurt.
She said she doesnt have energy for the relationship and has to fix her problems (i know what they are) and i was always super supportive but she just couldnt handle the pressure lately so she ended things.
After that she wiped our videos and photos from her IG then a few days later archived or deleted almost all her general pics leaving just a few black and white ones where she looks cold and unbothered. (Like what does that even mean help me out here).
Then she posted something on her story and i just couldnt watch it seeing her with someone else would legit break me. A few days later I unfollowed her and i think its for the better but it hurts like hell.
Do you think she even cares about me at all
Last updated on:2025-06-03T18:01:53+05:30
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Love doesn’t vanish overnight. She may be handling things differently but deep down she knows what you shared was real. Whether she acknowledges it outwardly or not you mattered.
I know you just want an answer some proof that she cared some sign that you mattered. But sometimes we don’t get those answers. And learning to let go without them? That’s the hardest but most freeing thing you’ll ever do.
Breakups mess with your mind they make you doubt everything wonder if the love was ever real. But if she was in it for as long as she was it meant something. Just because it ended doesn’t mean it was meaningless
She said she needed to fix herself and while that doesn’t erase your pain it at least shows that her decision wasn’t about rejecting you it was about her. That distinction doesn’t make heartbreak easier but it does remind you that it wasn’t your fault.
I’ve had exes wipe everything clean like I never existed and it hurt like hell. But eventually I realized it wasn’t about me it was about their own way of processing. You still mattered even if it doesn’t feel like it.
Unfollowing was the best thing you could do for yourself. Watching someone move on especially when it’s unclear if they even grieve the loss is torture. You don’t need that pain in your healing process.
It’s brutal when someone you loved makes it look like they’ve moved on effortlessly. But trust me just because she looks unbothered doesn’t mean she is it’s just what she’s choosing to show.
She may be hurting in her own way but wiping photos and distancing herself is likely her coping mechanism. It doesn’t mean she never cared it just means she’s choosing to handle it differently than you are.