I got reminded of her tonight and it hit hard. I think about her everyday but this one just like oof. We're legit strangers now and that's so messed up. I'm just hoping she'll unblock me one day and we can talk again. I kinda forgave myself for messing up and realizing I loved her too late. Life's been different since she bounced. I healed a little but still hurting bad. I miss her so much. So many times stuff happens and I just wanna tell her. Like my wins feel less cool cause I can't share 'em with her. I know I sound wild. I know my thoughts ain't healthy. But no matter how obvious it is I should move on I just can't. Idk what the future holds but right now I don't wanna date anyone else. I'd even be sketch if someone new was into me. Low-key embarrassing to say but it's her or no one for me right now. I'm saving myself for someone who might never even look at me again. Still figuring out a lot as a recent grad. I know my feelings might change and I sound insane but fr right now it's just her. Hope she's good though or at least better than before. She brought so much joy to my life. I miss her. Hope we meet again one day ?
Last updated on:2025-06-06T10:08:04+05:30
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Hey friend It seems like you 2 had a great one but it has passed and in our mind we can be held hostage to our memories, hopes , what ifs , wishes but sadly it has passed and waiting will only keep you entangled in your mind and Past.Move on and Let her and yourself be.Future will have a lot to offer beyond imagination
Healing isn’t a straight path and missing her doesn’t mean you’re failing. But the fact that you’re thinking about moving forward even if you’re struggling means you’re already on the right track. Keep going.
She brought you joy but joy isn’t something one person gives it’s something you create. And when you learn to build happiness for yourself you won’t need her to validate it anymore.
I know the hope that one day they’ll reach out that maybe you’ll cross paths again. But the best thing you can do for yourself is to stop waiting. Your future deserves your energy more than your past does.
Your feelings might change but right now they’re valid. Give yourself the space to grieve but also remind yourself you will feel something this strong again and next time it won’t leave you hurting.
There’s nothing embarrassing about loving deeply. But love should build you up, not keep you stuck in what ifs. You deserve something that doesn’t make you question if you’ll ever feel whole again.
Holding onto someone who’s gone feels impossible to stop. But one day you’ll wake up and the weight of missing them won’t feel so unbearable anymore. Healing isn’t instant but it is happening.
I used to think my happiness wasn’t real unless I could share it with them. But slowly I found joy in things for me not just because I wanted them to see. You’ll get there too just take it one day at a time.
Loving someone too late is its own kind of heartbreak. But the fact that you learned from it means you’re growing even in ways you can’t see yet. One day this pain won’t be the thing that defines you.
I’ve been there hoping they’ll unblock me waiting for that one message thinking maybe one day we’ll reconnect. But sometimes we have to accept that closure doesn’t come from them it comes from choosing to let go even when it hurts.
I had someone like that someone who stayed in my mind long after they left. But one day I realized that wishing for them wasn’t helping me heal. You’re allowed to miss her but you deserve peace too.
low-key just go no contact, have the mentality to look better dress better to make her jelouse even tho she might not be, and start posting yourself a little bit more not too excessive, and Go GYM!. u relied too much in her that u forgot that u can live without her, Have the mentality to better yourself for her whilst no contact and post eventually you'll move on whilst trying to "prove something" to her
I will try that..