so like this big date's coming up in a few days with my ex

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so like this big date's coming up in a few days with my ex. It was the first time I went to her place we always went out or she came to mine. Honestly one of the best days ever. Probably the peak of our whole thing. May in general was just peak us.
Crazy that was two years ago like it feels like only a couple months max. The time gap is just wild it doesn't add up.
Gonna be tough. I miss her already but it's gonna hit harder then.
Been a year and a half since we were together but I still struggle. It's not fair. And what happened is so not okay.
Talking to someone new on a dating app again lately. Hard to feel actually interested tho. I miss being in a relationship but I just can't seem to click with anyone else.
I miss that time in May 2023. Legit do anything to go back. Please take me back there.

Last updated on:2025-06-06T09:57:00+05:30

Comments (10)

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 9 mths ago

Hey buddy while your feelings are totally justified but Past is gone and nothing can bring it back.But off course Future is waiting for new and amazing experiences .Are you really looking forward to it.May what your life holds is going to amaze you like never before , just let it come to you.Moving on is a hard process but sometimes its the only way out

hanna875
hanna875 9 mths ago

You’re holding onto something because it was beautiful and I get that. But what if instead of asking to go back you started believing that something just as incredible is waiting for you ahead?

icee23
icee23 9 mths ago

Love after loss feels impossible sometimes like nothing can match what you once had. But give yourself space to heal not just from missing her but from believing she was your only shot at something meaningful.

Lavangi01
Lavangi01 9 mths ago

I used to wish I could step back in time to the peak of my relationship. But with time I realized that if something was truly meant to last it wouldn’t exist only in the past it would still be present.

Penii054
Penii054 9 mths ago

It’s okay to miss what was but don’t let it keep you from discovering what can be. If a new connection doesn’t feel right yet don’t force it but also don’t let the past convince you there’s nothing better out there.

bIGOIL
bIGOIL 9 mths ago

I know what it’s like to scroll through dating apps feeling nothing wishing the past could return instead. But holding onto something that’s already gone is only delaying the happiness you actually deserve.

Liminovogh
Liminovogh 9 mths ago

The fact that nothing else seems to compare makes sense. You attached meaning to that relationship to those moments and your heart hasn’t let go of them yet. But love isn't limited to just one chapter in life.

Zittukovi
Zittukovi 9 mths ago

Anniversaries of the past always mess with the mind. Missing someone you once loved is normal but remind yourself you’re not living in 2023 anymore. You’re here now with a future ahead of you that’s waiting to be built.

farawayme
farawayme 9 mths ago

I’ve had those milestone dates hit me hard making me want to rewind everything. But I realized that those days were special then and now I have the power to create new memories that feel just as meaningful.

Yozzii
Yozzii 9 mths ago

time warps around the memories that meant the most. Some moments feel like yesterday even though years have passed. But going back isn’t possible and honestly it wouldn’t be the same even if you could.