I got the best partner ever. He knows me better than I know myself always there for me. Made me believe in myself and that I'm his main priority. Our life together is amazing and he always says I'm his fav person. But like I just found out he was chatting with randoms about spicy stuff. My gut says he wouldn't cheat and I get needing outside validation especially when he's feeling down (which he def is but tmi). The problem is this is bringing up ALL my insecurities. My last long relationship I was never enough. No matter what I did I wasn't valued or loved. Thought I was over that but now I can't stop thinking if I was enough he wouldn't need to text other people. We talked about it a bunch and I wanna believe him so bad when he says I'm enough. But my doubt is blocking us from moving past this and growing together. How do I shut up that voice telling me somethings wrong with me?
Last updated on:2025-06-07T16:43:08+05:30
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Sounds like you're not comfy with this. If your partner's actions make you feel this bad they probably shouldn't be doing it. Most people in a monogamous relationship would have an issue if their partner was sexting someone else just saying.