I was seeing this dude for like three months and we were exclusive or so I thought. Recently found out he's seeing some other girl who's totally his type (which like I'm not) all while he was sweet talking me and making plans but never actually following through. Now he's just ghosted me and seriously what is up with guys who can't even give you the respect to just end things? Everyone I've ever seriously liked has left me the exact same way just disappearing without any closure. I did so much for him and that's why I feel extra bad he was divorced with a kid and all my friends were like Why pick someone with so much baggage? but I still chose him. He even said he loved me first and this is how he treats me in the end. I kept chasing for answers he never gave and he didn't even reply to my last text. So do I just let it go or should I text him one last time?
Last updated on:2025-08-03T16:12:36+05:30
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You shouldn't question your worth. You are worth more than you realise. If he made you question it and dated elsewhere then that says a lot about him.
My ex thought that she wasn't my type too. She thought we were too different, and no amount of reassurance or talks could stop that. The loss of her has hit me harder than any other loss ever has
Love isn’t supposed to feel like questioning your worth. You deserve more.
I’ve been ghosted before and the best decision I made was never looking back.
You deserve a love that doesn’t make you feel discarded. Keep moving forward.
Your worth isn’t determined by someone who couldn’t even say goodbye properly.
You deserve honesty and respect not ghosting. Let go of what doesn’t value you.
chasing answers from someone who didn’t have the decency to give them. It’s exhausting and heartbreaking but I learned that closure doesn’t come from them—it comes from you.
You should just let it go. He didn't respect you so walk away with your head up. Do not go back. Someone who ghosts you doesn't deserve the satisfaction of hearing from the person they ditched. It'll just make him gloat.
Thankyou! I needed that