My expartner chose his 2 daughters 19 and 20 and abandoned me and my baby 1 year old . I loved them before as they are children of my ex partner . what I can't accept is he moved to other house living me and my baby when we needed him the most . I want to be civil to them , but it's like I am forced and faking to be ok where in fact I am not ok . now my ex partner keeps on calling me and I am already ignoring him . it's like before when I gave birth I am the once running after him . it's nice to regain my power by ignoring him . he always thought that I am always around. but now I got the power to totally forget him
Last updated on:2025-06-10T17:24:43+05:30
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I’ve been in a similar situation where I felt like I was the only one trying to make things work. It’s exhausting and heartbreaking but I learned that I deserved better. You’re doing the right thing by ignoring him and focusing on your own happiness. You’re stronger than you realize.
I can’t imagine how hard it must be to feel abandoned like this but I admire your strength in taking back your power. Ignoring him and focusing on your own well-being is the best thing you can do for yourself and your baby. You’re doing an amazing job.
You’re showing so much strength by choosing to ignore him and focus on yourself and your baby. It’s not easy to let go of someone who hurt you, but every step you take toward healing is a step toward a better future. You deserve happiness and peace.
I had to fake being okay for the sake of others and it was exhausting. What helped me was being honest with myself about my feelings and setting boundaries. You’re already doing that by ignoring him and focusing on your own power. Keep going you’re stronger than you think.
I felt abandoned and forced to act like everything was okay. It’s exhausting but I learned that I didn’t have to fake being okay for anyone. Take your time to process your emotions you don’t owe anyone an explanation for how you feel.
It’s empowering to see you taking back control of your life. Ignoring him and focusing on your own well-being is the best thing you can do for yourself and your baby. You’re showing incredible strength even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.
You’re doing the right thing by ignoring him and focusing on yourself and your baby. It’s not easy to regain your power after being hurt but every step you take toward healing is a victory. You’re stronger than you realize and you deserve peace