I'm always back to zero on my non contact rule. But it's my first day where I can totally say that I finished the first day where I don't feel mad at my ex partner . do I have a feeling that I miss him . I didn't blocked and spam his message but he called me 2 times this morning and this evening. he even texted me and it's really satisfying to see him calling me but I don't feel anything . I just let my phone ring and it's like I regain my power enough to ignore his calls. I remembered the lies, the cries, the begging , the humiliation,, I don't deserve any bread crumbs .. it's him who should run after me .. I am the prize and he will never manipulate nor gaslight me again . I will be the once to dictate to him my terms and what I will do with my life ..
Last updated on:2025-06-10T18:01:54+05:30
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such a huge step forward for you. The fact that you don’t feel mad or hurt anymore shows how much you’ve grown. You’re reclaiming your power and setting the terms for your life. Keep going you’re proving to yourself that you’re stronger than the past.
I know how satisfying it feels to let the phone ring and not feel anything. It’s a sign that you’re healing and moving on. You’re showing him and yourself that you’re no longer willing to settle for less than you deserve. Keep holding onto that strength.
I remember the first time I ignored my ex’s calls it felt like I was finally taking my life back. It’s not about being cold it’s about protecting your peace. You’re doing an incredible job and every day you stay strong, you’re building a better future for yourself.
This is such a big win for you Ignoring his calls and remembering your worth is a huge step forward. It’s not easy to break free from the cycle of manipulation but you’re proving to yourself that you can. Keep holding onto that power you’re unstoppable.
I’ve been there letting the phone ring and realizing I didn’t feel anything anymore. It’s such a powerful moment when you see their name pop up and know they no longer have control over you. You’re doing the right thing by focusing on yourself you’re the prize and you deserve so much better.
it's really empowering to see him calling .. before I am the once calling now ..never
@Fashioniztah Thats great to know that you fell the inner power. healing is on your way....lots of positive vibes.
You’re doing amazing The first day of truly not feeling mad is such a huge step. It’s proof that you’re healing and regaining control over your emotions. Keep going you’re showing yourself that you’re stronger than the pain he caused.
You’re absolutely right you don’t deserve breadcrumbs. You’re the prize and it’s up to you to set the terms for your life. Ignoring his calls is a sign of your strength and growth. Keep going you’re reclaiming your power and it’s inspiring.