so she dipped a month ago today but she's still been in contact. She hit me up asking for two weeks to clear her head get some space and think about coming back to try again. Honestly I'm kinda feeling like she's playing me. I'm actually good on my own now, enjoying my own company. Never lived alone until now, and I'm on a heavy dose of sertraline so I can't even cry just feel flat and numb. Compared to a month ago when I was literally on my hands and knees bawling begging her to come back my whole mindset has shifted. So here's the thing if she comes back wanting to try again what if I don't even want to? What if I let her come back for all the wrong reasons? Shouldn't I still be heartbroken right now? Am I already over her? I'm genuinely wondering if I'm even still in love with her. Don't get me wrong, the thought of her with someone else makes me physically sick. I just don't know.
Last updated on:2025-06-17T18:17:02+05:30
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It’s normal to feel conflicted especially after everything you’ve been through. You’ve done so much work on yourself
You’ve made so much progress and it’s clear you’re starting to prioritize yourself. Take your time to figure out what you truly want without rushing into any decisions
It sounds like you’ve come a long way in just a month. It’s okay to feel conflicted healing isn’t linear and it’s normal to question your feelings as you grow.
You’ve been through a lot and it’s amazing to see how far you’ve come
Going through the same rn. Yeah the thought of her being with someone else physically is actually killing me... but like we can't control other people's action, right? If you love her that much would you even take her back if you guys reconnected after like a year of dating other people?
Hey nah we can't stop what people do only control our own actions. It's just the thing I couldn't and can't even imagine being intimate with someone else and my head spins thinking about her doing that. To answer your question honestly no. If she had been with someone els my brain would see that as cheating even though it wouldn't actually be. Does that make sense? What about you would you try again in that scenario?