Met this really pretty girl in my second year at uni. We dated for three years straight and it was a good run. Had our ups and downs but we never quit on each other. She's super supportive ended up being my girlfriend and my best friend. Because of her I kinda created this illusion in my head that to have a good relationship your partner must be your best friend.
Few months after graduation she said she wants us to break up cause she wants to marry early.. Since then she's always traveling every weekend after work saying she has to visit family. She barely calls or returns my calls. I've been off super moody and always thinking. Idk if she's seeing someone.
Last updated on:2025-06-18T20:12:02+05:30
Comments (7)
It’s hard to see someone you love change like this. You deserve honesty and someone who’s as invested in the relationshp as you are don’t settle for less.
You’ve clearly put so much into this relationship and it’s okay to feel moody and upset. Take this time to reflect on what you need and deserve in a partner.
Hi It’s heartbreaking when someone you love starts to drift away. Give yourself time to process your emotions and don’t hesitate to reach out to friends or loved ones for support.
I can feel how much you loved and valued her. It’s okay to feel hurt and confused but remember that you deserve someone who’s fully present and committed to you.
It sounds like you really cared for her and it’s hard to let go of something so meaningful. Take time to focus on yourself and what makes you happy you deserve peace.
It’s tough to feel like you’re being left in the dark. You deserve open communication
It’s tough when someone you care about starts pulling away but you deserve clarity and someone who values your time and emotions.