How does love just switch on and off like a light? How can someone be so madly in love one week then poof next week it's totally gone. Like it was never even there. Ladies please help. I'm so confused. She gave her ex so many chances after he repeatedly hurt her for months but she won't even consider giving me another chance hearing my cries and pleas for a new beginning. Wtf is this.
Last updated on:2025-06-20T20:03:14+05:30
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She might not wanna give you another chance cause she got burned before like giving her ex too many chances. Just give her some space to think and miss you.
I want her back but what if she uses this single period to hook up with people. IF huge IF she comes back should I not take her back cause of what she's done? I've been watching the same Leo Skepi video on repeat about how to check their socials to see if they messed up. What do I do IF this happens? I know she's not the type to just chill and not hook up, but I also have no clue who she even is when she's single.
@patricpo Lust and limerence don't last but love isn't something you just turn off. Sometimes people jump into new relationships without healing from the last one. Wounds are still there so it's tough to trust again. Idk the deets of the breakup but you mentioned her not forgiving you for something. If you really broke her trust you might not get that back. Can you two even talk about it? Maybe for closure or to actually fix stuff?
@sunzara I tried to get closure but she wasn't having it. I didn't even do anything bad I was just super suffocated and my freedom felt totally gone from my high school relationship that dragged into a year and a half of college so like three years total. Then her and I got together and I finally got my freedom back. We were perfect for like three and a half months but then I started choosing my goals over her which I knew. But once we broke up in my begging and crying
@patricpo I hope she gives you another chance but pls don't give up everything just to give her more attention.
@sunzara Gotta detach my heart from my brain ASAP. She made her position like crystl clear. Hop she figurs her stuff out though.
@patricpo I hope your heart is okay
@sunzara Nah it's not okay. She's still got it slicing it up piece by piece. She helped me heal brought my inner child back when he almost ended it last year. So she better get her stuff together before I'm gone.
I fought so hard and Ik that she’ll neverNEVER find a real man who would be willing to abandon aspirations but am I a real man if I do that?
@patricpo You sound like a sweet guy for trying to make things work no matter what. But lowkey she might not even respect you if you give up everything to be with her.
@patricpo hey search on youtube how to manifest an ex back by affirmations and stuff. it helped me and he contacted me but for some reason I have to let go because I deserve better