42 days no contacts, I felt like I was going strong and then some random guy added me on insta and started chatting to me. asked me out. asked me to meet the next day, said I was busy which ibwa said the day after I said no I'm busy, we can pick a date and meet then when we are both free, he asked when I said next weekend maybe and he said no that's far too away anything could happen. needless to say I didn't reply. but to be honest I didn't really want to, I thought if I pushed myself for the experience but I have all the fears and anxieties of the previous relationship still in my head. I'm not ready for anything. I am healing but I want to be on my own for a while to sort my head out and not have these issues with a new person. I do believe I'll meet someone someday in the enar future. I'm just annoyed, I'm thinking hes probably texting girls or on tinder and that's his choice but I kinda of feel like I'm behind because I don't want to. I've started thinking about him again which is so annoying. I don't want him. my head is a bit of a mess
Last updated on:2025-06-24T08:18:02+05:30
Comments (16)
Healing isn’t cute or easy,\ but you’re doing it like a boss. Keep building that inner glow-up.
Ignoring him wasn’t rude it was selfcare. Protecting your peace is the ultimate win.
Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. You’re out here respcting yourself and that’s iconic.
Saying no and protecting your vibe? That’s main character energy right there.
You’re doing something many struggle with choosing peace over familiar pain. powerful.
Not replying wasn’t petty it was a power move. You’re leveling up and it shows.
You’re being so self-aware and that’s a huge step in healing. It’s okay to not be ready yet there’s no timeline for moving on.
I know exactly how you feel! It hasn't even been two months since my breakup and I don't know when or if I'll be ready to date again. But I know my ex is having "platonic" dinners with women. It makes me so angry. I try not to think about it. But we have to look out for our own well being, regardless of what they are doing. We must do what's best for our own mental health.
I suppose if they jump into something quickly themselves, they haven't done the work either. still pisses you off though!
thats such a big number fr. great going 👍👍👍
ah thanks 😄
proud of you for following no contact for 42 days
thank you 🙏🏼😊
yesssss self love self rediscovery and discovery. you did right. I'm right there with you my friend if I'm jot right nothing in my life will bright so I just gotta do what's best for me and that's not jumping bk out there to soo. .don't wanna punish my future person for the last person
ah it feels good to know someone is in the same place, thank you 😀
@DreamAndJoy9 it ain't easy honey I tell you that. but we doing it