We dated for 3 years then broke up because of him losing feelings(should have taken it as a sign)but still were friends. Then his mom passed and from then I became a shoulder to lean on. He took my virginity I was cool with it coz he said he loved me and was going to marry me. We then got back together I probably assumed we were back together coz he never asked formally. So we were together and he said he didn't want to tell me he loved me when he didn't mean it and that's where I blocked him on everything except WhatsApp and on calls he can reach out if he wants to but honestly idc anymore I already ordered his birthday gift so I'm going to give it to him as my final act of love before I completely disappear from his life just like he'd want me to.
Last updated on:2025-06-24T07:33:02+05:30
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You’ve shown so much love and care even in difficult circumstances. Giving him the gift as your final act of love is a beautiful way to close this chapter and focus on yourself.
It’s clear you’ve been a supportive and loving partner but stepping away is sometimes the healthiest choice
You’ve handled this situation with so much grace even when it’s been painful.
hey it’s hard to let go especially when you’ve invested so much emotionally but you’re doing the right thing by prioritizing your peace and moving forward.
You’ve been through so much and it’s clear you’ve given your all to this relationship. Your decision to step away shows incredible strength and self-respect.
you helped him through a very deep grief and you are his go to person and yet he is double guessing and he just keeoing you in emotional limbo. its not fair. you take back your peace girl
I feel this.. It’s sad how we cling to maybe while they stay silent. Your final act of love sounds like a powerful and brave exit. all the best.
if he doesnt mean it and if he is not saying it then probably he is not into it. And he has shown that before also. some times some relationships are too difficult to salvage...hope you are able to move on and heal
yeah i guess the birthday gift is like your closure ritual it makes complete sense to me.
I think you have given a lot in this relationship.and it takes so much to be a compassionate person Like you.Be with someone who doesn't keep you waiting or confused rather treats you amazingly and respects and cares for you so much more
i get that. think you were this soft space for him when hismom passed away and like before you had parted ways ..when he healed he went back to being his old self and i think yes its good you are trying to move on. 💪
Thank you🥲❤️🩹