i just spent the last two hours deleting all the picture of me and him and his kids from my phone

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i just spent the last two hours deleting all the picture of me and him and his kids from my phone. it's was hard dwlting the pictures of the kids but I don't see why I should have them there. I did look at some and made me feel said but then I came across screenshots of pages he followed or girls pictures he liked or horrible messages he sent me. so glad I kept them now. I've been scared to go Into my camera roll since I left him, at least it's done now.

Last updated on:2025-06-24T06:28:03+05:30

Comments (15)

kiwiibird
kiwiibird 8 mths ago

Going through your camera roll must have been so tough but you’ve taken a big step in moving forward.

icee23
icee23 8 mths ago

Deleting those pictures must have been bitersweet but it’s a powerful way to reclaim your peace. You’re doing what’s best for you and that’s what matters.

Gooderwill
Gooderwill 8 mths ago

That sounds like such an emotional process but you’ve done something so brave by confronting those memories.

jignia03
jignia03 8 mths ago

I’m so proud of you for facing something that must have been so emotionally draining.

romentica
romentica 8 mths ago

It’s never easy to go through old memories like that but you’ve taken a brave step forward. Clearing out those reminders can be so freeing.

Pillauwnag
Pillauwnag 8 mths ago

I can only imagine how hard that must have been especially with the kids involved.

Angrydresser
Angrydresser 8 mths ago

It’s okay to feel sad about the good memories but it’s also okay to let go of what no longer serves you.

Dobbiwak
Dobbiwak 8 mths ago

That must have been such a dificult thing to do, but it’s also a big step toward healing. You’re so strong for facing those memories and taking control of your space.

Dramaticme
Dramaticme 8 mths ago

deleting his digital presence in ur life.this kind of closure when we stop looking for answers but make our own way forward with our own closure is something else. u should be proud. you did a very brave thing

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 8 mths ago

yessssssss honey. I did it as well. sad to say. I got pictures n screenshot still popping up. my Google back up is outta sync. but it's the start. the willingness to rid ourselves of these things. memories are what they are. n we will forever have them. but I'm proud of you. sometimes I wanna sit n just b sad n look at what was but MY WHAT IS ... IS WAITING FIR ME TO SHOW UP N A BETTER WAY N THATS WHAT I LOOK FIRWARD TO . KEEP YA HEAD UP I SEE YOUR GROWTH N HEALING .

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 8 mths ago

ah thank you 🙏🏼

romentica
romentica 8 mths ago

I did something like ... went through my phone and deleted every photo of us, even the ones where I looked really happy. It felt like erasing parts of a life I once loved including Deleting all holiday videos. looked at those one last time and it felt surreal was it ever true. did this even happen in my life? I thought we'd never fall apart. the sweetest birthday voice note he sent and screenshotted texts And weirdly, it also felt like I was finally taking my power back.

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 8 mths ago

i felt the exact same, hard to shake it but I love this taking my power back, I never looked at it like that 🙏🏼

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 8 mths ago

This is a really good step that you have taken, to make your mind match the reality and help you Move on in Life.Congratulations on the Courage

DreamAndJoy9
DreamAndJoy9 8 mths ago

thank you, I felt unsure doing it. stirred up alot of emotions