I keep finding every excuse to text her again. She replies and we chat for a bit but it feels different each time like she's just being nic which she is. It's been so hard getting over her and I know breaking no contact makes it even harder but I seriously don't know how to stop myself. She just seems so much happier without me. It feels like I'm falling apart while she effortlessly moves on with her life and that just kills me. I know I'll eventually end up in a better place but getting there is tearing me to pieces right now.
Last updated on:2025-06-24T08:55:03+05:30
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I'm in the same boat right now. We will get better. We will heal and move on from this and have a great life!
Going through something similar rn but I learned from before. Still hitting someone up once it's over won't end well.
You gotta go full no contact. It's tough, I know, but you just gotta do it.
Don't try to be friends with her thinking you still have a shot. That's why being friends with an ex is kinda sus if you're just hoping to get back together. You're basically setting yourself up for even more pain bcause remember you're their friend now and friends are hyped to tell you about the new person they're into. She might even send pics of them.
Yo if you think it's too good to be true she's probably feeling the same. Just gotta open up and ask the question.
I tried twice. After two weeks we had a nice little small talk. A month later she replied hours late super polite but ice cold like a total stranger. She never even hit me up herself even though I thought we were still friends...
Chasing her will only push her further away.
Maybe she's just trying to be happy with the life she's got and is building cause that's what's right there ya know? Also can I ask how long ago you two broke up?
Sorry but you gotta totally cut her off. Like can you ever actually beat an addiction if you're always getting your fix?
This is actually super eye-opening 🥲 you're right I think it's time to say goodbye even if it sucks.
@paramount It hurts and I'm sorry that you have to go through this. But you will come out stronger on the other side
@KGrant This is why I had to delete and completely cut off the guy I was crushing on. He didn't even like me or wanna talk to me like I was just annoying him. So like what's the point? Why put yourself through that? It just makes it harder for you in the long run. Rip off the bandaid let it hurt for a little while and then move on.