My ex dipped after six years together and I've been a total mess ever since. We knew each other for like 10 year and deep down I know we weren't right and honestly probably brought out the worst in each other. But she was my whole world and I tried so hard to make her happy but it just wasn't enough for her. Since she's been gone I can't help but miss her even though I'm trying to be more active and do stuff I've been putting off, like sorting out my driving and trying to make new friends but it just feels fake. Logically I know we weren't compatible but I really thought we'd work through everything. The worst part is that like two months after she left she started seeing someone who looks exactly like me meanwhile I feel like I'm barely coping. I loved her so much but the way she ended it was so cruel and I don't think I deserved that. I know I messed up sometimes but I always tried to fix it. I know healing takes time and I want to say I'm slowly getting better but I feel so lost.
Last updated on:2025-06-24T20:08:02+05:30
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It’s so painful to lose someone who meant so much to you even if the relationship wasn’t perfect. Be kind to yourself you’re allowed to feel lost while you heal.
When one door closes, another one opens. God is making space in your life for something bigger and better. I have to keep telling myself this every day. You will get through this. But I know what you mean about trying to socialize and it feeling fake.
I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you. It’s okay to miss her and still know deep down that it wasn’t right. You’re doing the best you can and that’s enough. Sending you strength.
It’s so hard to let go especialy after so many years together. You’re allowed to grieve and feel everything you’re feeling.
You didn’t deserve to be treated that way it’s okay to feel hurt. It sounds like you’re trying so hard to move forward, and that’s something to be proud of.
It’s clear you gave so much of yourself to the relationship and it’s okay to feel lost right now.