after 21 days of no contact. I still want him and made a call to him today.He didn't attend but still all the memories and things are haunting me a lot. I loved him so much and wanted to be loyal with me. but him I even lost my virginity to him. but he cheated on me with another women. now my mind is convinced bcz he didn't call me so I'm ready to be a option for him now. idk what to do plz guys i beg u to help me. all these 21 days I tried to hold on myself. but today im overwhelmed by his t0ughts and couldn't control so went back to him like a child. I know he insulted me before everyone saying she the pen came here , she is asking for it all such things. im really confused I didnt know wjat to do. I sisterly called him now
Last updated on:2025-07-01T05:17:02+05:30
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It’s so hard to move on when your heart is still holding on but you deserve someone who loves and respects you fully.
I know it feels impossible right now but you deserve someone who loves and respects you fully. Please don’t settle for less than you deserve you’re worth so much more.
remember that you deserve someone who values you and treats you with kindness.
It’s so painful to love someone who hurt you but you deserve so much better than being an option. 😢
I know how overwhelming it can be when emotions take over but you deserve someon who treats you with love and respect. It’s hard to move on but staying strong and focusing on yourself will help you heal.
Never make someone a priority who is only willing to make you an option.
yeah I know. but when emotion and physical needs overwhelm I couldn't control.
hey 21 days was an achievement, i haven't reached that much yet, the fact that he responds like that tells so much, sometimes people just can't appreciate you no matter what you do, so i hope you start to breathe and appreciate what you have, things that have happened, had happened, just be present for yourself today, it's always fine
I can feel how much pain you're holding. It’s heartbreaking when the person you gave your heart toturns out to be someone who didn’t value you back. That call wasn’t weakness it was a moment of need. But his choice not to answer? That tells you everything. You deserve someone who holds your heart gently, not someone who throws cruel words around. Please don’t give up on yourself. We’re here. You’re not alone.
read this without judgement. we both been physically and yeah I gave myself to him at the peak of love. I now crave for the feel of a tight hug, holding hands. The voice the fight the way he is. the like everything yeah but when im low or the world is cruel I used to ran to hik but now I feel so lonely though everyone are there. I feel ashamed to care for the physical touch never I felt before but after getting to know the feel I crave for that tight hug and holding hands
Hey, I just want to sayit takes so much strength to get through 21 days of no contact. Slipping doesn’t mean you failed. It just means you’re human and grieving someone who meant a lot. But the way he treated you, especially what you said about him insulting you that’s not love. Please don’t let his silence convince you that you're only an option. You’re not. You’re worth being chosen. Every single day.
should I block or just talk with him. idk im so tired and confused
@Jamie25 Yes you should block him. I been in a relationship for 2year and 6 months and it ended the 2 of June and I cry every night I try calling him yesterday and it just hurts more and more.I block him from everything yesterday and I cried the whole night🫠
@Jamie25 Yes you should block him. I been in a relationship for 2year and 6 months and it ended the 2 of June and I cry every night I try calling him yesterday and it just hurts more and more.I block him from everything yesterday and I cried the whole night🫠
@CozyVibe788 sorry to hear bcz I know the pain.for sure will heal and love ourself lot