Broke no contact today for our kids. He was so used to me being there for him and fighting for our 9 year marriage but now he realized that he just might have lost me. I told him i needed space to move on and that he finds a way to see our children without interacting with me. He then says that i already moved on with someone else which is not true as i have been completely faithful to him since we met. All through our marriage he has impregnated 3 ladies and treated me with disrespect to a point where i almost lost my life and even got into depression. He's last desperate move was to suggest therapy yet again. And to me, therapy would mean him finally being aware of his actions and be a better partner for his next one and us finally having a witness to help find terms to co-parent. He often finds ways to hurt me instead of build me and raising my hopes up is one of them. However, there are no hopes left to raise. Thing is, from our interaction, even if we got back together, i do not see any substance in the relationship. I'd rather move on. In this case, me moving on isn't being with someone else but instead forgetting him completely and focusing on raising my children with or without his help. I'd rather be single than go through the hell he put me through with him or anyone else.
Last updated on:2025-07-12T07:30:10+05:30
Comments (8)
Oh love, you are so strong for choosing to left the toxic relationship. I hope you find your happiness.
This is such a strong decision. Choosing to move on and focus on your kids shows how resilient you are.
I admire your strength. You’ve been through so much and choosing to focus on yourself and your kids is so inspiring.
I’m so proud of you for standing your ground. You’ve been through so much and you deserve peace and happiness.
You deserve so much better and focusing on your kids and yourself is the right move.
Moving on sounds like the best decision for your peace.
Gosh you've endured a lot. I'm glad to hear you're choosing yourself now, and I'm excited for your healing and future. You got this ❤️
Hey you have gone through a lot and given it your all.You really deserve to take a stand for yourself be happy and healthy and joyful.Its amazing that you have taken the steps to finally secure your peace.All the blessings to you .