When it's getting hard but I am adding one more day to my no contact. She called me today evening on 7th day. But I dint pick up the call and let my friend pick that up. I also waited for 6 days and have unfriend her from insta this morning. As I was feeling stuck and thought if she cudnt come back in 6 days then what's worth having her on my profile. I mean I find it easier when I completely remove a person. Else I remain waiting or half healed. Why she has called today is it bcz it's the same day she broke up or I removed her from insta.. or she realized and came back of her choice. Now I am. stuck whether to talk and reply to her on her texts or not. coz the pain she gave me it's me who beared it in six days. I was alone and she was not at all here with me and there is no compensation of that pain. This is really confusing my heart wants it and my self respect says she has not changed she ll again disrespect me even if I continue my no contact.
Last updated on:2025-07-09T09:19:35+05:30
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Hey all thanks for being so supportive.
She has been messaging me since yesterday but I just viewed them and not responded. She did say sorry that she should not have done that 7 days gap. But somehow looking into her past patterns I am/was looking for more words from her. But this morning she said" it seems you don't want to talk and that's what you wanted and would not force you " I wanted to ask you all am I doing right by keeping a distance and let her do hard work this time or me being mean and adamant?
keep up the faith
keep up the faith
You’ve done so well staying strong for 7 days. Take your time to decide don’t rush into anything that might hurt you again.
You’re doing amazing by focusing on yourself. If she’s serious she’ll prove it over time.
Sounds like you’re torn but self respect always wins. If she truly values you she’ll show it through actions not just a call.
It’s tough but remember why you started no contact in the first place. If it’s for your healing stick to it.
You’ve already come so far with no contact. Trust your gut and prioritize your peace it’ll guide you in the right direction.