I am really confused. She reached out to me after 7 days when I was in complete no contact. She is now texting me continuously since yesterday which I virwed today once. Else it was unread. I am worried if it's the same old pattern when she disconnect and comes back(this 7bdays was the longest one) or should I respond to her. I am kind of waiting of she put her strong foot ahead to say why she left where were she and why she left me for 7 days and then only I shud respond. and that's the problem with her always she is not thoughtful that what cud have solve the arguments. everytime when I say then she start doing it. in a dilemma shud I respond or left her unread now till she accepts. Or if she get pissed that I am not responding and leave again. help me plz
Last updated on:2025-07-09T09:19:53+05:30
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Hey all thanks for being so supportive.
She has been messaging me since yesterday but I just viewed them and not responded. She did say sorry that she should not have done that 7 days gap. But somehow looking into her past patterns I am/was looking for more words from her. But this morning she said" it seems you don't want to talk and that's what you wanted and would not force you " I wanted to ask you all am I doing right by keeping a distance and let her do hard work this time or me being mean and adamant?
If she’s serious about fixing things she’ll make the effort to explain without you asking.
You’re in the right to want clarity before respondng. If she’s srious she’ll stick around and make the effort. Don’t stress too much.
You’re not wrong to want her to explain herself first. If she’s serious she’ll understand why you’re holding back.
If she’s not addressing the real issues it might just be the same old pattern. Take your time to decide what feels right
maybe wait and see if she takes responsibility for the 7 days. You don’t have to respond right away
It’s okay to feel confused. Maybe give it some time and see if she explains herself without you having to ask.
Yes that's the only thing I have and going to do. Because if I say a word she will pick it up and start saying those things. And it gives me an impression that she is not saying of her own. And this way i am able to stay on my no contact continue.
I get why you’re hesitant. If she’s serious she’ll make the effort to explain herself
Hmm i am. Waiting but this stage is more tough than no contact. Because you keep waiting if she will say something. This is pain!