It’s been 8 days since the breakup, and 2 days of no contact. Today was the first day I felt a small glimmer of hope for the future, but I’m still having a really hard time. I’m very tempted to text him to wish him well and ask him hows he feeling and if he misses me as much as I miss him. I’m wondering if he found a new place to live yet. I’m also dealing with a lot of anger since he hurt me so much throughout our relationship. But I just feel so lonely, even around others, and It feels so painful to go from seeing him almost every day for almost 4 years, to not even texting. It’s the hardest in the evening/night.
Last updated on:2025-07-11T04:49:02+05:30
Comments (14)
It’s normal to miss someone after so long but try to focus on the glimmer of hope you felt today.
Anger and loneliness are tough to deal with but you’re already showing so much strength
Thank you for that. I appreciate it
It’s okay to feel lonely right now but remember it’s just part of the process. You’ll feel better with time
Thank you, that’s what I’m hoping for
Thank you, that’s what I’m hoping for
No contact is so hard but it’s the best way to heal. You’re stronger than you think
Evenings are always the hardest but you’ve got this. Try to distract yourself with something you enjoy
Yes, thank you for your advice. I will try to find something I enjoy to make the evenings easier
It’s totally normal to feel this way but you’re already making progress by focusing on yourself.
Thank you, I appreciate that
Breakups are so tough especially after such a long time together. Sending you hugs you’re doing great by staying strong
Thank you, I appreciate that. That means a lot
Hey it does get better. I know it's really hard right now, Loosing a long term relationship can be painful.Hope you feel better soon