My ex contacted me after a week of breaking up with me telling how wrong she was but she tried her best and asked me to reflect if I can trust her again. it's so damn confusing. i know i'll go back to her and then everything will remain the same. what should i do?
Last updated on:2025-07-12T04:53:02+05:30
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f you feel like nothing will change maybe it’s worth stepping back and thinking about what you really want
Sounds like a tricky situation. Maybe talk it out with someone you trust before deciding.
It’s okay to feel this way. Just make sure you’re doing what’s right for you not just for her.
I get why you’re confused. Trust takes time to rebuild don’t rush into anything
That’s tough. Maybe take some time to really think about what’s best for you before making any decisions.
maybe take time to make a decision, see if actions meet words. however I have to completely honest, I'm on the 11 days of no contact and I hope I could say he called too 😔
It's much easier to move on when your ex doesn't contact. it sucks when they do but I hope he they contact you if there is a chance for you and your ex to rebuild the relationship. I am taking my time but I am confused AF.
@Logan4240 I hope you figure it out. 😊
how can I make sure that I am making the right decision of letting her go?
how?? how about through out the time she did not contact you? does your life feel miserable? does it end? because let me hold your hands brother.... that is not love.. love requires misunderstandings but at the same time still choosw each other. But for me, YOU said it, everything will remain the samw, thus the cycle will continue on and on and on until she abandoned you when the time comes. DONT bro.... there is someone out there that will matches us and match our efforts, but we need to give them a healed version of us. move forward.... do not hold on to a drink that poisons you. MAN up, chin up, look in the mirror, is this what u want to do to your younger self? thats it.
In this life, we need to seek ourselfs first. If you know nothing will change, you are not looking after yourself. Just a dream, a temporary solution.
Be strong my friend, there is something above that has better plans for us. If you open of this wound, you are just starting it all over again, with no security of it actually workng.
thanks. 🤗