Is it right to leave my partner because he didn't change?

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Is it right to leave my partner because he didn't change? Me and my partner have been together for 1 and a half years and we constantly fight.. And usually.. it's because of him.. Everytime, he Always promises that he'll change.. recently we have been stuck in a loop of Him doing something wrong, I confront him, He gets defensive, I get angry, I block him, I wish for him to reach out and say sorry.., I miss him, I ended up being the one to apologize.

Last updated on:2025-07-15T05:20:03+05:30

Comments (8)

momosea
momosea 8 mths ago

It’s not wrong to leave if you feel stuck in a loop. You deserve a relationship that feels healthy and supportive.

roastmind
roastmind 8 mths ago

I’ve been there and it’s so draining. Sometimes walking away is the best way to find peace.

Jissaboe
Jissaboe 8 mths ago

You’ve given him chances but change has to come from him. Don’t feel guilty for wanting better for yourself

Simmubida
Simmubida 8 mths ago

It’s hard to leave but if the cycle keeps repeating maybe it’s time to prioritize your happiness.

realangel
realangel 8 mths ago

exhausting u deserve someone who listens and makes an effort to grow with you

Angrydresser
Angrydresser 8 mths ago

It’s okay to want more for yourself. If he’s not willing to change you have to think about what’s best for your peace

BraveHug99
BraveHug99 8 mths ago

Yes, you are doing the right thing. I know it hurts, but if he wanted to change, he would. My partner was the same way. Every time I thought he would change, he didn’t. You shouldn’t have to waste your life waiting around for him to get better. You deserve better

Unhealed
Unhealed 8 mths ago

Either he doesn't want to change or he doesn't know how to change. My partner left me after 7 years because I didn't change. But I didn't know what to do to change. Now I'm getting help so I can do better and be better.