I broke no contact on Friday. I had a really bad day and the only thing that could make me feel better was hearing his voice. I called him and he answered saying he was having dinner, that he would call me later. And he did, and the conversation was so casual—we didn’t talk about what happened or how I feel, we just caught up on each other’s lives. And even though it felt good to hear from him and talk without arguing, it also hurt me, because he truly has no interest in fixing things or saying he misses me. It seems like he’s completely over it and talking to me is like talking to anyone else. He’s someone who has hurt me deeply and said so many horrible things, yet he still answers. He doesn’t reach out to me at all, but he remains available—and it makes me sick.
Last updated on:2025-07-15T05:22:02+05:30
Comments (5)
It’s hard when they don’t seem to care as much as you do. You deserve someone who does
It’s tough when they’re still in your life but not in the way you want. You deserve clarity
That must be so confusing. It’s okay to feel hurt your feelings are valid.
It’s tough when they’re available but not giving you what you need emotionally
I get why you feel that way. It’s frustrating when they seem okay while you’re still hurting