My last relationship was a disaster. I humiliated myself so much—I begged him to stay with me. I know that, during the last month, I forced him to be with me out of pity. I think that, in his eyes, I lost all my worth. But do you think he could come back? I know I shouldn’t keep holding on, but I want him to reconsider. Still, I keep seeing in so many videos that if you beg someone, they never come back—and I’m so worried I ruined my chance because I felt so desperate.
Last updated on:2025-07-15T05:15:04+05:30
Comments (7)
If he comes back it should be because he values you not because of pity. You’re worth so much more
Begging doesn’t define you it just shows how much you cared. Don’t let it weigh you down.
I get how you feel but maybe it’s time to focus on healing and moving forward. You deserve better
if he truly cared he’d see past that. Don’t blame yourself too much
It’s okay to feel this way but remember your worth isn’t defined by someone else’s opinion.
Hey don’t be too hard on yourself. We’ve all done things we’re not proud of in relationships.
no. from a guy to a girl, you... NO. Big no, idk what u guys argued or problems about. But if a man truly loves a girl, he wont leave her unless she disrespected me and my family. No sis, you dont want him, u just miss the connection and the company. You yourself said that you shouldn't keep holding on, that is your guts snd hearts telling you the answer. You can be desperate, but not to him, rather to fix yourself. Me? i miss her, i miss her family, her smile, her laughs, her random old jokes. But that was the version of her that i fell in love with, not her true colour that she showed me last 13 days ago. To me, she is dead, the version of her i fell for, is dead. Please do not beg for someone to stay, think of your future, during narriage etc, his behaviour will not change. As a guy/man to you (a girl ) it will not work. But what will work is that u improve yourself, have a workout, be fit and modest, be beautiful, and show him what he lost. Its common that if someone leaves you, they will come back ( BECAUSE the grass is not greener on the other side a.k.a the other girls) at this time or moment, it is crucial for you lto not accept him. It is common for those who left us and come back to us later because they realize that what they lost was diamond. And that diamond is priceless and will not be a second option or treated like a trash. Wake up sis, be better and there will be someone better. DO NOT seek for a rebound rs, find yourself first and heal, have some self respect. Goodluck, show us your strength