So, this is what happened.
We were in an argument and I asked my partner to tell me if she doesn't love me anymore and tell me to go if that's the case. It escalated and she got angry and in a whim she told me to go because she cannot give me what I want. I thought she told me to go and she doesn't love me anymore so I blocked her from everywhere and she was unable to contact me anywhere. She thought that I left her and went and had phone sex with someone else. Now after two days I saw her emails and replied to her and the we resolved the misunderstanding together. I apologised for not giving a chance to clarify her and told her that I will try my best this time. After 3 days of us spending good time she told me that she had phone sex with someone else. I consider it cheating and she tells me that she thought we were over. I am feeling cheated on. She said it wasn't cheating it was her impulsive reaction. Kindly guide me regarding it.
Last updated on:2025-07-15T05:59:21+05:30
Comments (13)
That’s such a tricky situation. Do you think you can move past this together?
we are trying
That’s a lot to unpack. Do you think her explanation makes sense or are you still unsure
Man that’s tough. It’s okay to feel hurt take your time to figure out what you want.
that sounds really complicated. Have you had a chance to fully talk it out with her?
yes but I am still confused and I am feeling like she will do this again if we fight or when I won't be able to give her what she needs from me.
Wow that’s a lot to process. How are you feeling about everything now?
confused
how?
okay so phone sex was it in terms of watching p**n or in a real time video call with someone else?? before that she pushed u away because of an argument and told u she no love you. But after u guys have peace, she told u that she had phone sex with someone else, idk if its por* or a vc. But in my case, when i was left and pushed away, i did not find someone else or what not. But this someone she did the thing with, if it was a real time vc its a big no yk. If its just p**n then we can discuss. + with your current situation, its just straight up not healthy... This behaviour, will you tolerate this in marriage? idk if its both parties fault, but in my eyes, its better both of u go seperate ways and find yourself back, NOT WITH someone else or a rebound. Find yourself and heal yourself, be better and when the time comes, there will be someone, when the time comes..
unfortunately it was a real time video call.
@Logan4240 dude, bro to bro okay? she's not it. No buts, no she treated me this that, no she give me etc. No. Have some self respect bro, its time for u to wake up and realize that all of this is just bs, its straight up disrespectful. If its just p**n then we can consider a discussion, but this?? no no. HAve some self respect to yourself. SHOW me your strength, its time for you to move forward, YOU yourself know that it's wrong and ik yk what to do. show us your strength.
@Logan4240 strength in terms of moving forward, and never look back. Dont hold to an empty bottle