I'm really hurting.. Me and my partner got into a fight because of something.. We chatted about his mother who is quite strict.. and he said that his mother said that she also "doesn't want me to go anywhere alone" and I texted him "isn't that normal?" and he became defensive about stuff and he claimed it's because he is sensitive about his mother's strictness... So I understand him and I tried to reassure him about it but he just wouldn't listen.. I kept on trying and he diverted the topic to me not always using our callsign.. I got confused and still I tried to reassure him about the last topic so that we can talk about the new one.. But he just won't listen 😃. I said that I need space for a while since I usually ask for space when im getting angry and he just said "Feel free"... omgggggg what do I do?? I thought guys were simple...
Last updated on:2025-07-15T04:56:03+05:30
Comments (6)
I feel you sometimes people just don’t want to hear reassurance even when they need it.
You’ve been so patient with him but it’s okay to focus on yourself for a bit. Maybe he’ll come around once he’s had time to think.
That sounds exhausting You’ve done your part by trying to reassure him. If he’s not ready to listen it’s okay to take a step back for now
guys can be complicated too Maybe he needs time to cool off but don’t forget to prioritize your own feelings.
I totally get how confusing this must be. It sounds like he’s dealing with his own stuff but it’s okay to take space for yourself too
Ugh that sounds so frustrating Sometimes people just need time to process things. Maybe give him a little space and see how he responds later.