this is my day 13th and im looking forward to seal/throw/sell all of the gifts she gave me. ik some of you might perceive this as heartless, but its just how the way it is. If i kept all the toys and gifts, it would just sting me with a memory on the day she gave it to me. It hurts to get rid of the toys and gifts. i even kept a cookie box that she made for during our early stage of rs. But I cant hold on, i cant keep all this boxes of gifts, even a small keychain stings me with a memory of it. I need to remove it, i need to move forward. I'm doing this for the sake of my future and my future wife who idk, i dont want her to be uncomfortable or feel like im still holding on. It stings, but for me, its the only way to do it. its time to throw the book that i created, and replaced it with a new cover, and a new page.
Last updated on:2025-07-16T10:27:02+05:30
Comments (5)
I totally get it. Those little things can hold so much emotional weight. It’s okay to let them go if it helps you heal.
This is such a strong move. It’s painful now but it’s a step toward a fresh start. You’re doing what’s right for you.
It’s not heartless at all it’s self-care. Sometimes we have to let go of the past to make space for the future.
Letting go is never easy but it’s such a powerful way to move on. You’re doing what you need to for your future and that’s brave
this sounds like a really healthy step forward. It’s tough but you’re doing what’s best for your healing. Proud of you